Face your FEAR

It's a bit hard for me to post this article, coz actually I havent mastered this technique yet. But I think my opinion here will be able to open your mind about what fear is and how to handle the effects of this feeling.

Fear, is a feeling causes cry, afraid, weakness, and cowardice. Those feelings are I want to specifically explain here on this article.

Fear is the only reason why we cant move forward, or move on. Why? there are some reasons, first, your unconsciousness feels it's not save to continue your deed, coz you've felt something hurting. Second, lots of fear come from the past. I mean our experiences in past cause a lot of negative effects that affect our behavior. Third, fear cannot be removed unless u face it.

Those fact are just my view, after knowing the facts of fear, lets continue to the relation between fear and 4 feelings mentioned above.

Fear and cry, When we face fearsome situation, one of the effect is crying. Why? let's think about it, When u realized u cannot do something to encounter the fearsome situation, what will u do? scream? silent? cry? yeah, cry is the deed that I do if I face that situation, what about you? lets take the baseline here, If we fear in a fearsome situation and we can do nothing, we will cry. -I dont really agree, but commonly it works :D-

Fear and afraid. Another effect is afraid. Afraid is a condition when u feel worried or frightened that something unpleasant will happen. When u face a fearsome situation like meeting the psycopath right before your eyes, u'll run away coz u're frightened of something unpleasant (probably he'll kill u) will happen. In afraid situation only to ways to encounter it. 1. run, 2. face it (fact no 3 : fear cannot be removed unless u face it).

Fear and weakness. My weakness is my fear, what about u? simple example is like this > I fear of knife, coz I've seen someone got stabbed right before my eyes (fact no 2 : lots of fear come from the past. I mean our experiences in past cause a lot of negative effects that affect our behavior). Because I've seen someone stabbed, I fear of knife, and everytime I see a knife, I'll feel afraid, and run away. Afraid is one of the effect of fear, so it's fine if I say : "I fear of knife, and knife is my weakness. Coz when I see knife, I'll run away"

Fear and cowardice (Love story). Why would you be a coward person? I think coz u've faced something hurting affecting your heart (Fact no 1 : your unconsciousness feels it's not save to continue your deed, coz you've felt something hurting). U'r unconsciousness records all things. Good and bad experiences. Though we have filter to filtrate emotions passed by, still emotions carry notions which are delivered to unconscious mind and they will be recorded for life. Every single experience carries its own emotion, and our memory will easily recall something that has emotion notion. U'll simply remember u'r theme song, than remembering new song.

Emotion will weaken us, example : U will easily cry when you broke up with your partner, compare to : U will cry when one of your neighbour dies. Emotion (love) weaken yourself (partner), but when you dont feel emotion(love)(neighbour) U'll as tough as hell.

Once u're hurted, u knew how it felt, and sometimes its hard to convince yourself to start all over again.

Thats just what I wanna share, and I hope u can understand, and useful for your life.....

Regards
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